Is He Just not That Into me?


An evening with silly conversation between me, Radit and Anthy, during Sushi time:

Anthy : So, you like him?
Me : umm I think so, or maybe I just curious.
Radit : Is he returned your call? Reply your text?
Me: sometime, mostly he’s not
Anthy : Is he ever done something, that pursuing you, chase you around, ask you for a date?
Me : nope, never
Anthy : NADIAAAA, don’t blind, no matter how shy that guy. You should know that the way he react lately just confirm that He’s just not that into you. Face it honey!
Radit : or maybe he’s Kagak Lurus! Maybe he’s bengkok??!
Me : *keselek nyembur ocha dingin*

Here's the Lebay description:
I had this guy leave me a voice mail at work so I called him at home and then he e-mailed me to my Blackberry and so I texted to his cell and then he e-mailed me to my home account and the whole thing just got out of control. And I miss the days when you had one phone number and one answering machine and that one answering machine has one cassette tape and that one cassette tape either had a message from a guy or it didn't. And now you just have to go around checking all these different portals just to get rejected by seven different technologies. It's exhausting. 

And things I learned...

Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. Every movie we see, Every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope. 

Or maybe God has another beautiful plan :)
Pic from Echa, thanks, mate! 

He’s totally gonna call .. (Nadia still blind!)


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